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Subject Line: Secrets To Stripper Seduction... LIVE!
Hey, I've got something very cool and FREE for you to check out. It's a guide to Strip Club Seduction tactics, and you can download it here:
It's from my buddy (and legendary international pickup artist) Dean Cortez. Dean developed his "strip club game" during his years living in Las Vegas, where he figured out a system for banging (and dating) some of the hottest, sexiest dancers in the entire city...
These girls were making money hand over fist at the clubs where they worked, giving lap dances to millionaires, celebrities, you name it...but when these sexy strippers got off work, were they hanging out with THOSE guys?
Hell no. They were going over to Dean's house and banging his brains out! He was getting for FREE what those other guys would have gladly paid a fortune for...
At one point, Dean was actually dating FOUR of the hottest strippers in Las Vegas...and he's a normal- looking dude who lives in a regular apartment and drives a regular car.
So how does a guy like Dean manage to walk into strip clubs and actually get the hottest girls to COMPETE to hang out with him?
How does he manage to bang women who look like super-hot porn stars, without spending having to spend ANY money on them? (Besides maybe buying a round of drinks at the club...)
If you want to find out, give this free report a quick look:
By the way, strippers always SAY they don't date customers. And this is generally true...
But one of the secrets of Dean's success is that he never "frames" himself as a customer.
He doesn't ACT like a customer, so the strippers don't treat him like one. This means they're willing to give him their phone numbers, meet him after their shift, and go back to his place for sex until the sun comes up...
(By the way, if you've never had the pleasure of being with a stripper, they are UNBELIEVABLE in bed...)
It's all about knowing how to CONTROL your interactions with strippers. Instead of going along with their sales routine...where they pretend to like you, ask you some questions about yourself, and then persuade you to spend money...you've got to turn the tables and make them play YOUR game.
Anyway, Dean breaks down and explains how it all works -- and this is stuff that ANY guy can use effectively. He told me he might need to pull this report off the internet soon, so grab it now:
To your success!
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Strip Club Myths Vs Reality
Strip clubs are one of my favorite environments for picking up hot women.
You might say they're the ULTIMATE "target-rich environment." Where else are you literally surrounded by beautiful, nearly-naked women...the alcohol is flowing, and most of the girls are buzzed...the lighting and music is set for seduction...and every one of these girls wants to approach and talk to YOU!
But, aren't the strippers just out for your money? Of course they are -- AT FIRST.
When you master the "Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction," you are going to QUICKLY frame yourself as a non-customer -- a guy who is HIP to their game, and the way these clubs operate, and you're going to know how to flirt with the strippers in a way that is playful, confident and fun.
(You can learn more about it here):
Using these methods, within 30 seconds she'll STOP thinking about trying to hustle you for a "lap dance" -- and she'll be chatting and laughing with you, just as if you were doing a successful pickup at your neighborhood bar.
Most guys, however, buy into the STEREOTYPES about strippers, and this holds them back from trying to take it to this "other level." I've dated many strippers (I even had an HSG, Hot Stripper Girlfriend, who lived with me for two years), and I understand their psychology like few men do.
I can also tell you that it is ABSOLUTELY possible for you to hook up with one of these hotties -- whether it's strictly for sex, or you want to date some of these stunners.
(Wait until you stroll into your local bar with two Hot Stripper Babes on your arm...watch your buddies' jaws DROP! Lol...)
But first, I want to break down some of the MYTHS about strippers, and explain the FACTS as I have come to understand them.
MYTH #1: Strippers don't date customers.
Yes, strippers will always say this. "I don't date customers" is like the official stripper mantra. Why? Because they feel that in order to maintain their sanity with this crazy job, they should keep the two "sides" of their identity separate.
Outside of the club, she might be Mandy, the single mom who is taking classes at the local community college. Or, she might be Rebecca, the aspiring actress who is only stripping "temporarily" until she catches her lucky break.
But at the club, she puts on her makeup and G-string and she becomes "Mercedes" or "Destiny" or whatever her stage name may be. She tells herself that this is JUST A JOB because it would be too damn depressing to think that this is "who she is" -- a stripper grinding on guy's crotches for ten or twenty bucks a song.
Strippers hate the fact that most guys think they're basically no better than prostitutes. (They are NOT prostitutes, unless you're hanging out in some total shit hole club. Try soliciting a stripper for sex at a club in Las Vegas, and you're likely to get slapped or thrown out by the bouncers.)
For this reason, strippers generally don't date customers. They don't want to date a guy who KNOWS how she earns her living, because they will judge her on that basis.
But in reality, do strippers wind up dating customers from time to time? Absolutely! I met my ex-girlfriend, the HSG, when she on duty at her club. All of her stripper friends had boyfriends, or fuck buddies, who they met at the club. The idea that strippers, as a hard-and-fast rule, do NOT date customers is nonsense.
Why would a stripper NOT want to see you outside of her work, IF you strike her as a fun, cool, super-confident guy who makes her feel attraction? They key here is to overcome her doubts about dating "customers." You have to present yourself as being NON JUDGMENTAL and you need to establish that you UNDERSTAND her line of work, and you know it's "just a job." (My "Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction" is PACKED with techniques for building rapport, comfort and attraction.)
Basically, you act NOTHING like the "chump customers" who she will AVOID at all costs as soon as she clocks out. You're different. You're an original. You REALLY UNDERSTAND her. And that, my friend, is how you get laid from strippers ;)
MYTH #2: All strippers are strung out on drugs, booze, etc., and come from screwed-up, abusive backgrounds.
Like I said, I've dated a lot of these girls. I'm also close friends with several very famous porn stars. (Again, one of the perks of living in Las Vegas.) None of them had these issues. Of course you will come across strippers who party too much, or are emotionally screwed up. In any nightlife-related job, you will find these personality types. Combine the intense nocturnal lifestyle, and being able to drink and party (while you're on the job!), and naturally there will be women who go over the edge.
On the other hand, I know gorgeous strippers who don't drink, don't smoke, and don't touch drugs. They work at the clubs simply because there is simply no other job where they can make this much cash, so easily. These girls actually have to "dumb themselves down" when they are working, so that customers can buy into the whole "fantasy" that they are with a brainless sex object -- when in reality, these are some of the coolest, hippest chicks you will ever come across!
MYTH #3: Strippers will only date guys who have money or fame.
Another major falsehood. When I was living with my HSG in Las Vegas, we used to throw pool parties at my house and all of her stripper friends would come over. I felt like a mini-Hugh Hefner ;)
Sometimes we'd be hanging out by my pool, and the girls would get calls from bigshot "VIP customers" who were coming to town and wanted to see them at the club. The girls knew exactly how to work the customers...on the phone, they'd be all flirty and sounding excited to see them.
Then, as soon as they hung up, the girls would all crack up. They would totally BUST ON these big shots. Mocking them. They knew they were going to WORK these guys at the club and get their money, and the dude was going to get nothing but a bunch of silly lap-dances in return.
(By the way, when I say these guys were "VIPs," I'm not kidding. Some of these dudes were millionaire Hollywood actors, famous rappers, All-Star pro athletes...and the strippers were totally NOT interested in banging them!)
Why? Because these big shots had NO GAME. They were vulgar, arrogant, and treated the girls like "hoes." The girls were into making money off them, but didn't want to sleep with them -- because this, in their minds, would make them prostitutes.
It was INCREDIBLE to me how these rich, famous dudes were complete SUCKERS with the strippers. They would come to the club, blow a few thousand dollars on lapdances and drinks, get REJECTED when they tried to bring a stripper home, and then go back to the casino and hire a hooker.
(And then there was me...buying a case of cheap beer, throwing my backyard pool parties, and bangin' em for free -- because I knew how to really CONNECT with them.)
You can connect with these hotties, too when you've used and applied the techniques here:
PS - Make sure to check out the free bonus products, too -- which include a KILLER one-on-one interview with a guy who MANAGED several major Las Vegas Strip Clubs - nothing get's more 'underground' than that, I assure you :-).
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3 Steps To Getting & Attracting Women Younger Than You
Your success with dating younger women is not dependent on how old you are, or how large the gap is. The approach you use for a woman your age will also work for someone younger-with a few minor tweaks.
It really comes down to three things:
1. The image you present to the world.
2. The thoughts and beliefs that are stuck in your head your mindset.
3. Your selection criteria (ie how you select who you're going to approach)
Those are the same three things you'd focus on if there weren't any age gap. Only the variables within each group change a little.
Women are women; the psychology of a woman doesn't change with age. Only her focus does.
1. Your Image
When I talk about your image, I don't mean the way you dress (though that is an element of it). The image we're concerned with is the one that she forms based on your external appearance, your way of moving through the world, how you carry yourself, what you say, how you interact with others, etc.
You want to be in total control of the kind of person she thinks you are. Women don't just go for what's on the surface.
She's asking herself "what kind of person is he on the inside?"
The answer that you should have ready for her should be something that overpowers any resistance to your age, looks, height, weight, or anything else that is outside her normal "type."
Women go for men who have what she wants.
That's really what it boils down to: Do you have what she wants?
Sure, some of them want you to be Brad Pitt (who is over 40, by the way. But, he's perceived as youthful because he's presented that way). But, they'll gladly put aside good looks and age if you have everything else she's been looking for.
With age comes many benefits. Experience, security, understanding, and social status are all byproducts of getting older.
If you'd like to start attraction younger women, stop thinking about the NEGATIVES of being older, and focus on the positives. But your actions must speak louder than words.
You can't just talk about being more experienced and mature than men her age. It has to be seen to be believed.
If you have to tell her, then you're not doing it right.
You have to start asking yourself, "What are the qualities that make me attractive, despite my age?" And, honestly, if I were you, I'd even drop that last part about your age.
Just ask yourself, why would anyone, regardless of how old she is, want to be dating you?
I can promise you this: if you have attractive qualities that make you desirable to women in general, then you definitely have qualities that younger women will also find attractive.
While the mindset of a woman does change as she gets older, they're all still attracted to the fundamentals.
Demonstrate to everyone around you that you're the man they either want to be, or the man they want to be with.
Up to a certain point, you want to present yourself as youthfully masculine. Don't get an earring and dye your hair blonde. Just take care of your body; eat right and exercise.
Display healthiness, and you'll be associated with youthfulness. Wear clothes that look good, and make you seem like you've opened up a copy of GQ Magazine in the past year.
You should be doing that no matter how old you are, but if you want to seem especially younger, you shouldn't be the kind of guy who looks like he needs to relax at home after a hard day of work.
Engage in strenuous physical activity. Hit the gym, go hiking or ride a bike. Take dance classes. If you don't feel old, you won't look old. Besides, younger women don't go for the stay-at-home types. They're more likely to go for you if you're bursting with energy.
If you're clean-shaven or have a beard or a mustache, try trading it in for the "haven't shaved in two days" stubble.
Studies have shown that women find this look attractive.
Again, it connotes a young, yet maturing appearance. It also demonstrates a little rebelliousness, especially in older men.
Remember, it's all in service to the image she'll make up in her head. In there, you need to seem youthful, energetic, strong, experience, able to take care of her and satisfy her. If you can conjure and cultivate the portrait of a capable man, the age difference will have little meaning.
2. Your Mindset
What you project as your image has its roots in what you're thinking right now. Who do you believe yourself to be?
What do you feel are the boundaries of your capabilities?
Let me ask you this: right now, do you feel like you can easily pick up a desirable 25 year old? Do you feel that you're at a disadvantage because of your age?
Over the years, I've heard every excuse in the book, and I can tell you that there are almost as many 25 year old guys who don't think they can get a 25 year old girl, as there are 45 year olds who think the same way.
It's not your age; it's your beliefs about your age that hold you back. As I pointed out earlier, getting older has its benefits.
But what if you were to truly believe that your age isn't something to hide? What if you were proud of how old you are?
Remember: It's not your age that's the issue; it's HERS that might be the issue.
What if she's too inexperienced and too naive?
YOU are the right age, but she has to prove to you that she's wise beyond her years. Or, at the very least, willing to learn from you.
For some guys, believing this will take some work. Changing beliefs isn't the easiest thing in the world, especially if there are a whole bunch of other beliefs tangled up in them.
With patience and determination, however, you can start to believe that you have an advantage over younger men.
If you believe in yourself, possibilities open up.
The major factor here is confidence and self-assuredness. I mean this in several ways. Not only does it mean that you've got self-esteem and believe in your own self-worth, but you're also fearless and will go after whatever it is that you want.
That means you don't think twice about approaching a 20 or 30-something woman. Project the sense that a man of your stature and confidence has gotten with younger women before; this should look easy.
You must exude the feeling that you've done this before, and being with a younger woman is nothing out of the ordinary. If you can truly grasp that and make it part of your belief system, then you will project it to her.
Then, she won't pay attention to the age gap. Being with a younger woman has to seem par for the course, but you still want her to feel special. You're not going after her because you need a younger woman.
You're interested in her because she seems interesting as a person. You just don't want her to feel that her age is a big deal to you. This kind of confidence comes from experience. It comes from making a concerted effort to be comfortable in that kind of situation.
If you're comfortable with women around your age, start frequenting places with a slightly younger age bracket (coffee shops, for example), and start interacting slightly outside of your comfort zone.
Work your way slowly, over the course of a few months, to the age group you want. If you're 40, don't jump into a 20 year old's world without experiencing some 30 year old and mid-late 20s women first. Your mind and nervous system prefers gradual change, and it's best to approach it that way if you want to acquire a new set of permanent beliefs.
3. Your Selection Criteria
I have a 55 year old friend of mine who lives in India. Every Monday, he goes to an American karaoke bar and sings a few tunes. He doesn't have the best voice in the world, but it is certainly a powerful one.
After his first number, he buys a handful of people around him a round of drinks. Over the course of a few weeks from when he started, he's become the guy that everybody knows.
Even in India, a place far more conservative than our United States (and the rest of the western world), he's been able to pick up several women under thirty at that bar.
That's because he embodies confidence and makes his presence felt. As a result, he has social status. At that bar, he's near the top of the pecking order. It's a mindset that he has cultivated, and one that is accurately sent out as his image. The two cannot be separated. And guess what: he is often dating younger women.
No matter who you select, she's looking for some type of demonstration of the pecking order. You're expected to be at the top because you're older. Those at the top take care of the ones underneath him. Don't mistake this to mean you pay for everything. It's not like you have to pay for her college tuition.
Just a demonstration is all that's required. It shouldn't look like a demonstration, either.
My friend has found a place that, for him, works well. He's able to demonstrate his authority and youthfulness among all age groups. I think you'll benefit in finding the same.
Some bars, coffee shops, and even something like night classes, would have a varied age group.
Of course, it isn't necessary to go "somewhere."
If you're confident in yourself, you'll be able find women anywhere. But, for the sake of practice, it's a good idea to find place where you can become a regular and befriend a few people (yes, even men) younger than you are.
One more thing to consider is that there are some women who are more likely to disregard the age gap than others.
In my experience, the more intelligent the woman, the more likely mature the man she dates. It's not an inalterable rule, obviously, but it's a good starting point to find receptive girls. Also, the more "alternative" she is (in the way she dresses and what she believes in), the more likely she'll overlook the age difference.
A vegetarian, for example, has an alternative mindset.
Ask yourself, "Why am I seeking out a younger woman?" I know, the real answer is because you and I both want a smoking hot chick in our beds so we can say, "I've still got it."
Besides that, find some other answers for yourself.
What are you looking for?
Come up with some good answers that ring true for you, and seek those types of women out. If you have a clearer goal, it's easier to attain.
It took me a long time to figure out how to date and attract younger women, and how to make them feel that powerful physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION...
I can't tell you how much I wish I could have known what I teach when I was younger. It's taken me literally YEARS to put all the pieces together, and I invite you to take advantage of the time, effort, energy, and money I've invested to discover, refine, and organize all of the step-by-step techniques I've put together for the Dating Younger Women program.
It will give you a SOLID foundation for thinking and behaving like a guy who NATURALLY attracts women.
I'll talk to you again soon.
Using CR's To Close The Deal With Your Favorite Stripper
I believe that originality is the most important quality that you can convey to a woman -- from your sense of style, to how you approach women and engage them in conversation.
It's important to make a unique first impression, because otherwise she might assume you're "just like the other guys" who approach her.
This means that right away, she's going to feel UNCOMFORTABLE and look for a way out...because MOST guys, when they talk to her, are only going to bore her or annoy her. You do not want her to make this assumption about you.
If you're in a social environment (bar, nightclub, party) that's when the girl uses the classic excuse: "I need to go find my friends."
(Don't you just hate when women say that? As if her friends are lost and dying of thirst, in need of rescuing...)
The importance of making an original impression holds especially true in strip clubs, where the strippers are having over 50 conversations EVERY NIGHT with different customers.
When a stripper approaches a potential customer and starts talking to him, she can pretty much tell IMMEDIATELY whether this a typical customer who is an "easy mark," and is going to shell out cash.
You want to impress her as an ORIGINAL dude who understands her "game" and isn't going to fall for her hustle.
At the same time, you want to create a BOND with her. You want to engage her attention and get her to share information about herself -- details she wouldn't normally share with a customer. Then, you'll tell her how much you relate and establish rapport with her.
One of my favorite conversational tactics for accomplishing this is using Cold Reads.
This tactic, which is used all the time by psychics and palm readers, is a way to make the other person feel like you understand what makes them tick, and what they're going through, without them telling you.
The trick with Cold Reads is that the "observations" you're making apply to practically anybody. Yet there are psychological reasons why they work so effectively. Human beings are self-centered, and we generally accept claims about ourselves that reflect how we wish to be.
Let me give you some examples...
If I'm in a strip club, talking to a dancer, I'll use a Cold Read:
"Y'know, I get the sense that when you're not working, a lot of guys get the wrong idea when they see you. They assume you're stand-offish and a bit cold, because of the way you carry yourself. But you're actually a lot more sensitive, and funny, than people realize."
(This Cold Read is universally true with really hot women, who give off a "cold" vibe when they're out walking around. This is simply because they don't want to deal with guys coming up and hitting on them all the time. But, once you get to know these girls, they often ARE sensitive and funnier than you'd think.)
Another example: "I get the sense it takes you a while to trust people, because you've been hurt before by someone who was really close to you. But the people that do earn your trust, you're always there for them."
(Again, this "observation" applies to pretty much any woman -- but it SOUNDS deep, doesn't it?)
Or, "I can tell that you're someone who usually plays it safe and doesn't take chances, but sometimes you've regretted it because you missed out on an opportunity. But then other times, you're spontaneous and adventurous, and you do take chances...and that's when you've had some of the best times of your life."
If she agrees with my Cold Read -- and seriously, I've never had a woman totally disagree -- I'll follow up by telling her that I can relate, because I'm the same way. This builds a bond between me and her. In order to solidify the bond, I'll tell a quick story that ILLUSTRATES how I'm the same type of person.
(If you've got five Cold Reads ready to use, you should also have five short stories to illustrate how you embody those same qualities.)
Here's another cool one: "I can tell something has been weighing on your mind. You're on the verge of making an important decision in your life, aren't you."
Pretty much all of us, at any given time, are contemplating a big decision (or one that is big to us, at least). But she'll be surprised and impressed that you "knew" that about her. She'll volunteer more information about herself, and now you're engaged in a deep, authentic conversation instead of trying to fill awkward silences.
(This one works GREAT with strippers, because these girls ALWAYS seem to have some type of drama on their mind.)
Much of what a cold reader does is simply repeating back what the subject has said. If she affirms that she's on the verge of making a big decision, you should nod wisely and say, "Yes, that's right, and you're really having a hard time with it."
Act as if you already KNEW what she was going to say!
Some other Cold Reads that are vague, yet sound "profound":
"I can tell you have a strong need for others to like and admire you, but you also have a tendency to be critical of yourself."
"You've got a hidden talent, or a passion, that most people don't know about, and you want to pursue it -- but something is holding you back."
"At times, you're really social and outgoing. But other times, you're reserved and introverted."
Once you add Cold Reads to your conversations with women, you'll get a feel for which ones work best. In strip clubs, techniques like these can quickly CHANGE her perception of you as "just another customer" -- and allow you to connect with her on a real level, which can lead to getting her phone number...and meeting up with her after her shift for some REAL fun ;)
And if you want to learn MORE techniques on how to meet, date and SLEEP with these women (how they think, what they're looking for in a man, etc) this is by far *the* most IN-DEPTH education you can get on it:
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How To "Close The Deal" With A Stripper
I've read a lot of books about marketing, and it's amazing how many parallels there are between trying to close a sale with a customer -- and trying to close the deal with a woman and get what you want from her. (This could mean getting her phone number, setting up a date with her, or bringing her home for sex.)
Basically, in order to seduce women you've got to be a good SALESMAN -- and the product you're selling is YOURSELF.
First, you've got to BELIEVE in the product you are selling. If you believe that YOU are a precious asset that any woman would be LUCKY to have, it's going to be much easier for you to convince women to go for you.
It's like the difference between going to a Ferrari dealership, and going to some shitty used-car lot.
The Ferrari salesman KNOWS he's "got the goods." Everyone wants a Ferrari. These salesmen are extremely polished and smooth. They don't need to make the "hard sell." The only question in his mind is, are YOU capable of buying one of his vehicles?
Then there is the sleazy "hustler" salesman on the used-car lot. He knows he's selling crappy cars that might break down before you get them home. This is obvious in the way he makes his sales pitch -- he's pushy and desperate. He tries too hard to be your "friend," because he knows that his product doesn't speak for itself. He's going to need to trick and coerce you into forking over money for one of his junky cars.
Obviously, you want to be the Ferrari guy when you're flirting with women. The question in your mind should be, is this girl WORTHY of your product? Because, not EVERY girl deserves you...
This mindset is essential for macking on strippers, because they're used to dealing with customers who are AWED by their beauty and sexuality -- but they don't have the confidence that is necessary to make a hot woman feel genuine interest and attraction.
Yes, you need to be cool and laidback. You can't take any of this too "seriously." But more than anything else, you've got to be PLAYFUL and FUN.
When she asks you "do you want a dance," you pretend like she wants a dance from YOU. You say...
"Do I want to dance for YOU? OK, but I charge $100 for three songs -- and no touching me below the belt."
If she says "can you buy me a drink?", you say...
"Well, I COULD, but then we're going to need the next ten minutes talking, and I need to make sure you can carry on a cool conversation. So tell me something about yourself that no customer in this place would ever guess about you."
When she says "Hi, I'm Mercedes (her stage name). What's your name?" You say...
"Since you gave me your stage name, I'll give you mine. You can call me Jake. I'm the Friday night headliner at the gay bar down the street, 'The Manhole,' ever been there?"
The SCS program gives dozens of tactics and techniques for flirting with strippers and building REAL connections with them. There's a lot of funny, clever, COCKY stuff in this program that is going to take strippers by surprise...and make them VERY curious to know more about you.
Then, you'll learn the CLOSING tactics that enable you to take things OUT of the club...and eventually, into your bed ;)
If you enjoy visiting strip clubs sometimes (as I do), why be another "chump customer" and blow money on nothing? It's time for you to learn how to TURN THE TABLES and make strippers play YOUR game.
Believe me, these are POWERFUL tactics that REALLY work...and if you've got tight "stripper game," seducing hot women in other environments really starts to become fun and easy :)
Download it here and run through it several times if you have to, and don't miss out on the free bonus modules (which includes a video interview with an actual Las Vegas Strip Club Manager!):
Enjoy!
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How To Flirt In A Strip Club
Creating attraction with a stripper comes down to ONE thing: Knowing how to flirt. If you can flirt effectively, you can talk to the most beautiful women in strip clubs -- or anywhere, for that matter -- on a level that most men simply do not understand.
If you want to skip straight to the *juicy* stuff and learn how to SEDUCE the hottest strippers, instead of just being another customer, give this a look:
Flirting in the strip club isn't about asking her a bunch of questions. And it's not about agreeing with everything she says and trying to demonstrate how "compatible" you are with her.
What flirting REALLY comes down to is creating sexual tension. It's knowing how to walk the fine line between teasing a woman (busting on her a little, and making her feel she's NOT cool/sexy/smart/interesting enough to date a guy like you), and also sending signals that you're a fun, playful, sexual guy she can totally picture herself with.
You also want her to feel like ANYTHING can happen tonight...and if she surrenders her inhibitions and goes with your flow, you are going to give her a night to remember.
So if you want to attract strippers on an AUTHENTIC level, the best way to make an impression is to NOT compliment her, or act like you are fazed by her beauty in any way.
You'll find that subtly teasing and bantering is one of the BEST ways to break down a stripper's "barriers," and get her to start connecting with you on a real level.
A favorite technique of mine comes from the infamous pickup artist "Sinn," who is a famous figure in the "seduction community" -- the websites and Internet message boards where guys gather to exchange tips and thoughts about picking up women.
Sinn encourages guys to act "as if." He came up with this technique because a lot of guys who come to his seminars are uncomfortable when Sinn explains how to properly flirt with a woman.
Proper flirting means being brash, playful, and a bit cocky. It means not being afraid to TEASE a woman, no matter how hot she is. Well, a lot of students who are new to "the game" resist this type of coaching. They say, "I can't talk to girls like that. It just isn't me." "I can't act that way with a woman -- I don't have the confidence." etc.
So what Sinn does is, he tells these guys to take out a pen and a piece of paper, and write down the answers to these questions. (I want you to do the same right now):
How would you act if...
- you didn't have approach anxiety?
- you weren't intimidated to talk to beautiful women?
- you knew that every girl liked you?
- you knew that being with you was the best possible choice that any girl could make?
- you really were The Man with women, and you could have you
choice of any woman you wanted?
If this was your reality, I guarantee you'd have a much more playful, cocky attitude about women. You wouldn't take it so seriously. One of the keys to being a really good seducer is to BECOME the "As If" guy.
When you've got this loose, playful vibe, you can HAVE FUN with the conversation and do the unexpected.
If she asks, "what do you do?"
You could answer:
"I'm an ass model."
"I'm a lion tamer."
"I'm a professional alligator wrestler."
"I'm a stunt man for porno movies."
If you're not the "conventionally handsome" type, you could say:
"I'm a go-go dancer at the gay club down the road. I'm Hercules, nice to meet you."
In my case, I'm a big, stocky white guy. I might say:
"I'm a hip-hop dance instructor. I could use a beer -- I've been training Michael Jackson all day. I tell ya, the guy's got two left feet."
These are just a few silly examples. Don't worry about trying to be super clever. Just be playful. By NOT answering her question directly, and turning it into a joke, you show her that you don't take things too seriously. This projects confidence.
It also sends the message that you talk to hot girls ALL THE TIME. This is natural for you. Think about how you behave when you talk with your buddies. When questions are asked amongst friends, we're always finding ways to turn things into jokes. Treat it the same way when a stripper tries to make "small talk" with you.
That's the first rule of flirting. To learn the ENTIRE step-by-step process for connecting with strippers and pulling off a successful strip club pickup, be sure to download your copy of the infamous SCS program before it gets banned by the "big dudes":
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Building Social Proof In The Strip Club
Mastering the concept of "social proof" is HUGE if you're going to become an expert on picking up women -- and this is especially true if you want to dominate strip clubs and pick up the hottest strippers.
The concept of social proof was first put to use in the advertising/marketing industry. Marketers figured out that one of the KEYS to making people desire a product, and want to make a purchase, was seeing (or even just hearing about) a lot of other people using and enjoying that product.
One example, from my youth, was the Cabbage Patch Kids. During one weird point in the 1980s, these toy dolls became an absolute PHENOMENON. They were selling so fast that the stores couldn't keep them in stock.
When Christmas came, parents were lining up in the toy stores to try to buy a Cabbage Patch Kid for their child, because it was ALL that any kid wanted. I remember seeing on the news -- RIOTS were literally breaking out in the stores! Parents were actually getting into fist-fights over the few remaining dolls.
Some parents were paying upwards of $1,000 for them on the "black market!" (Yes, there was actually a black market for friggin' Cabbage Patch Kids -- and for a brief time, they were more profitable than selling cocaine!)
Of course, a year later, no one gave a shit about Cabbage Patch Kids. It turned out to be a silly, flash-in-the-pan fad, like so many others. But it was an example of SOCIAL PROOF in action.
EVERY KID desperately wanted one of these dolls, and they were in extremely short supply, which drove up the demand even more -- even if none of this shit made any logical sense!
The most valuable form of social proof, from an advertising standpoint, is having a celebrity "pitch" your product. In the United States, the big stars refuse to appear in commercials or on billboards. But over in Asia, they rake in huge money this way.
Why should you trust a brand of coffee, or whiskey, or a diet soda, just because Brad Pitt or Nicholas Cage is plastered across some billboard, holding it in their hand? Are they "experts" on this product?
No, they probably don't have a clue. Chances are, they wouldn't even drink it! But they are FAMOUS, and they lend that product enormous SOCIAL PROOF by endorsing it.
People automatically think -- if this famous person, that millions of people like, is endorsing this product -- it MUST be great!
So now let's discuss how this relates to YOU.
You, in your own way, should always build social proof so that women see YOU as a "valuable prize."
Social proof means that other people VOUCH for you. They are giving other women "proof" that you're a cool guy.
Consider two guys at a bar: Guy A, and Guy B.
Guy A is standing by himself, holding his beer against his chest, trying to look "cool" but not talking to anyone.
Guy B is surrounded by a group of friends -- cool-looking guys, and a few very attractive women. They're all laughing and having a great time. Every few minutes, a beautiful woman will stop by the group, and greet Guy A with a hug and a kiss.
Now, which guy do you think EVERY OTHER GIRL IN THE BAR is curious about? Guy A, naturally. He has MASSIVE SOCIAL PROOF. All the other girls are thinking, "that guy MUST be fucking cool!"
The other girls ASSUME that he is hot, and cool, and awesome, ALL BECAUSE of how OTHER PEOPLE are reacting to him.
In my best-selling "Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction" program, we talk about how important social proof is in the strip club.
What does this mean? Well, it means building ALLIANCES with...
- the doormen
- the DJ
- the waitresses
- the bartenders
- the manager
And...the owner, too, if you can get a chance to meet him.
Just imagine, the next time you walk into the strip club, ALL OF THESE PEOPLE are happy to see you. The big, hulking bouncer shakes your hand and give you a slap on the back. The cute cocktail waitress gives you a hug and a kiss and escorts you to your table. The manager walks over to greet you, and buys you a drink.
At the same time, EVERY STRIPPER in the club is checking you out! They're all thinking, "Who's THIS guy? He MUST be somebody special..."
And they're ALSO thinking, "this guy is NOT a typical customer..."
This is going to make your job SO MUCH EASIER when the strippers approach you and talk to you. They already KNOW that you're "special." They assume you are NOT a regular customer.
Then, you're going to use the step-by-step conversational tactics that are explained in the SCS program -- and the DEAL CLOSING methods that will get you laid THAT NIGHT, once she finishes her shift.
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Two quick tips for building alliances...
If you want to be buddies with the doorman, buy a Red Bull or a bottle of water at the bar, and bring it to him. Tell him, "Hey man, I've been buying drinks for the girls, and I figured you could use one. My name's ________."
When he thanks you and shakes your hand, tell him, "You must be the envy of every guy, working in a club full of half-naked women every night. You make me want to consider a career switch."
Whenever I use this line, the doorman will chuckle and start telling me why his job is NOT a dream job, and it's actually a hassle, etc. Then I talk to him about it for a couple of minutes, and nod my head, and then I excuse myself. I tell him, "bro, it was great to meet you, I need to run back inside -- I've got a drink waiting. I'll be back soon."
(The next time you return to the club, that doorman is going to REMEMBER you -- and give you social proof.)
You should also meet the manager. This is easy to do. When you're sitting down, just tell your waitress that you want to meet the manager because you need to ask him a question.
The waitress will point out the manager. (If he's not on the floor presently, he will appear soon.) Then, you walk up to him, introduce yourself, and tell him:
"My best friend is getting married, and I'm in charge of the bachelor party. I love your club, and I was thinking this would be the perfect place for it."
Ask him about the prices. How much to rent out a VIP room for a few hours? How many strippers could you have in the VIP room for that price? Chat with the guy about it. Tell him it sounds awesome. Make sure he knows your name, and get his name.
Ask him how long he's been managing the club. Use the same line you used on the doorman: tell him how he must be the envy of all of his buddies (and then, let him tell you why his job is NOT so great. Strip club employees, including the strippers, will always bitch about their jobs.)
So now, this manager is ON YOUR TEAM. He knows you are a cool guy and you've got money to spend. Of course, you are never going to actually throw a bachelor party at his club -- but it doesn't matter. The next time you come back to the club, he knows you, and he welcomes you. That's his job -- to make the important customers feel welcome.
If he ever asks you about the bachelor party, you can tell him "my buddy isn't getting married until next year, so we've got awhile to plan it" or, you can just say that your buddy got "cold feet" and the wedding is off. (Spin it into a funny conversation; tell the manager, "how can a guy tie the knot and settle down with one woman, knowing that there are clubs like THIS?" This always makes the manager smile and leads to a fun conversation.)
Here's the bottom line, which applies to strip clubs and any other bar, nightclub, coffee shop, or anywhere else you regularly go to hang out and hopefully meet women: you MUST make alliances with the staff.
And it's not just to impress the women who are there. When you BRING a woman to this place, you want the staff to know you, and "show you love."
Once you understand how and why women are attracted to certain types of men, and how the dating 'game' works, you will see things in a whole NEW way.
Emotions of attraction can be 'sparked' in ANY woman... whether it's a friend, a stripper, an actress, your next door neighbor, etc it doesn't really matter. All you need is just to learn the right HOW to do it information and you'll see how EASY it can be done.
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Secrets Of Strip Club Game
I want you to ask yourself a simple question:
"Do I Want to Get With Hot Women?"
I'm not talking about the run-of-the-mill girls that you see in every bar and nightclub, trying to ACT like they're something special.
I'm not referring to the frumpy, angry women that most of your buddies are dating, or married to.
I'm talking about the incredibly hot STUNNERS that cause guys on the street to stop and stare.
The "perfect 10s" that every guy would KILL to have sex with, but the closest they ever come is jerking off to a fantasy in their head. The main reason why is that these guys fail to take action. They ASSUME that these super-babes are "out of their league," so they figure, why bother even trying?
And so, they go through life settling for mediocre women and relationships...and this results in a mediocre life full of longing and regret.
There are various places to meet very hot women, but one of my favorites is the good ol' Strip Club.
In my city, the higher-end strip clubs employ DOZENS of hot chicks that are of model quality. Or at least, porn star quality ;)
You are literally in an environment where you are SURROUNDED by beautiful, nearly-naked women, and their JOB is to approach you!
Now, I know what you're probably thinking: "yeah, strip clubs are cool, but the dancers are only interested in the contents of my wallet."
This is true -- IF you behave like a typical customer, and allow yourself to go along with their "game."
But if you play it correctly, and make the strippers play YOUR game, you can flirt with them...and escalate...just as you would with any hot girl, anywhere.
The average customer, however, when a man sees a gorgeous dancer in a strip club, he'll have a brief fantasy about what it would be like to have sex with her. BUT, he doesn't consider it a real possibility.
He might waste his money on a few dick-teasing lapdances, and pay for some drinks, but he doesn't really try to "get anything going" with her. He plays the role he is EXPECTED to play -- that of the chump customer, shelling out money to "buy" the stripper's time.
Now I want to let you in on a secret...
You have the ability inside of you to attract and seduce the MOST BEAUTIFUL women, and this includes the hottest strippers in the gentleman's club.
But first, you need to establish the right MENTAL ATTITUDE towards these girls.
Using "positive affirmations" is a powerful way to achieve this, and this is important for dealing with ALL women, not just strippers.
I want you to create a list of affirmations, about your own positive qualities, that you review in your mind on a daily basis. (This may sound funny, but it really works -- try saying these affirmations to yourself, out loud, when you're looking in the bathroom mirror as you prepare to go out for the night).
Here are some examples:
* "I'm an attractive guy that any girl would be CRAZY not to want to date."
* "Women have been WAITING a guy like me to come along."
* "I have lots of interesting things to talk about and share."
* "Strippers are just flesh-and-blood women, and like ANY woman, they're looking to meet a cool, 'Alpha' guy. Tonight that guy is going to be me."
When you use affirmations on a daily basis, what you are doing is REPROGRAMMING your mind for bulletproof success.
As you begin to apply the tactics that's in the SCS program, you may be SURPRISED at how easy it becomes to flirt with strippers and generate attraction. This will continually boost your confidence level.
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And once you've used our "Deal Closing" methods to get a sexy stripper into your bed, it will no longer seem like a big deal to do so. In fact, when you go to strip clubs you'll be EXPECTING to meet a woman tonight who you will end up having sex with.
Let the chump customers keep spending their hard-earned cash on pointless lap-dances and round after round of drinks. You will be on a MISSION every time you're in the strip club...and your options for fun, sex and great times will be limitless.
I love going to strip clubs as much as the next guy, but now I'm taking it a whole new level because I understand EXACTLY how to engage these girls and make them feel ATTRACTION -- instead of being just another "customer" who pays their bills.
Once you understand how and why women are attracted to certain types of men, and how the dating 'game' works, you will see things in a whole NEW way.
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Word-For-Word Scripts To Use When Seducing Strippers
Going to strip clubs can be fun, but at the end of the night you're usually going home alone, sexually frustrated, and with a lot less money in your wallet. Instead of being treated like a typical customer and spending your money on pointless lap dances and overpriced alcohol, wouldn't it be awesome to know how to cut through the games and get strip club sex with these girls -- when they're NOT on duty?
If you think getting strip club sex is impossible -- or that strippers will only sleep with rich guys, famous guys, or "bad boy" meatheads -- think again, because myself and my fellow pickup artists from Mack Tactics have been picking up and banging hot strippers for YEARS.
We've even gotten strip club sex INSIDE the strip club (without having to pay anything!), but that's a story we'll save for some other time...
Anyway, learning how to pick up strippers is about knowing how to flirt with them the right way, and engage them in EFFECTIVE conversations -- so that they stop viewing you as a typical customer, and feel genuine interest and attraction towards you.
You've got to ask yourself when you're hanging out in strip clubs, do you behave like a typical customer -- answering HER questions, going along with HER suggestions, and forking over your cash?
Or, do you project a sense of playful, cocky confidence when you talk to strippers -- so that they DON'T see you as just another "chump?"
Having this "playful confidence" when you're in gentlemen's clubs means when a hot stripper asks you "do you want a dance," you flip it and pretend like SHE wants a dance from YOU. You say...
"Do I want to dance for YOU?
OK, but I charge $100 for three songs -- and no touching me below the belt."
If she says "can you buy me a drink?", you say...
"Well, I COULD buy you a drink, but first I want to know whether we'd get along. So tell me something about yourself that no customer in this place would ever guess about you."
See?
You're turning the tables. This is one of the keys to flirting with these girls and eventually getting strip club sex.
You want to get her to reveal her goals, and interests, that she normally wouldn't share with a guy she meets at work. None of these women want to think of themselves as ONLY being strippers. They all have other goals, interests, passions, etc. Often times, their hectic work schedule prevents them from pursuing these other things, but strippers will want to talk about what they're hoping to achieve outside of the strip club, and conversing on these topics allows you to build a bond with her.
These are just a couple of quick examples of stripper pickup tactics.
Some guys literally take YEARS to get these "stuff" figured out. But, if you're plain lazy and you just want to cut to the chase, get right into 'it' and skip the whole learning curve, you can uncover those mysterious, intimate little 'secrets' women will NEVER tell you about here:
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Penetrate Deep & Instantly Connect With A Stripper
I believe that originality is the most important quality that you can convey to a woman -- from your sense of style, to how you approach women and engage them in conversation.
It's important to make a unique first impression, because otherwise she might assume you're "just like the other guys" who approach her.
This means that right away, she's going to feel UNCOMFORTABLE and look for a way out...because MOST guys, when they talk to her, are only going to bore her or annoy her. You do not want her to make this assumption about you.
If you're in a social environment (bar, nightclub, party) that's when the girl uses the classic excuse: "I need to go find my friends."
(Don't you just hate when women say that? As if her friends are lost and dying of thirst, in need of rescuing...)
The importance of making an original impression holds especially true in strip clubs, where the strippers are having over 50 conversations EVERY NIGHT with different customers.
When a stripper approaches a potential customer and starts talking to him, she can pretty much tell IMMEDIATELY whether this a typical customer who is an "easy mark," and is going to shell out cash.
You want to impress her as an ORIGINAL dude who understands her "game" and isn't going to fall for her hustle.
At the same time, you want to create a BOND with her. You want to engage her attention and get her to share information about herself -- details she wouldn't normally share with a customer. Then, you'll tell her how much you relate and establish rapport with her.
One of my favorite conversational tactics for accomplishing this is using Cold Reads.
This tactic, which is used all the time by psychics and palm readers, is a way to make the other person feel like you understand what makes them tick, and what they're going through, without them telling you.
The trick with Cold Reads is that the "observations" you're making apply to practically anybody. Yet there are psychological reasons why they work so effectively. Human beings are self-centered, and we generally accept claims about ourselves that reflect how we wish to be.
Let me give you some examples...
If I'm in a strip club, talking to a dancer, I'll use a Cold Read:
"Y'know, I get the sense that when you're not working, a lot of guys get the wrong idea when they see you. They assume you're stand-offish and a bit cold, because of the way you carry yourself. But you're actually a lot more sensitive, and funny, than people realize."
(This Cold Read is universally true with really hot women, who give off a "cold" vibe when they're out walking around. This is simply because they don't want to deal with guys coming up and hitting on them all the time. But, once you get to know these girls, they often ARE sensitive and funnier than you'd think.)
Another example: "I get the sense it takes you a while to trust people, because you've been hurt before by someone who was really close to you. But the people that do earn your trust, you're always there for them."
(Again, this "observation" applies to pretty much any woman -- but it SOUNDS deep, doesn't it?)
Or, "I can tell that you're someone who usually plays it safe and doesn't take chances, but sometimes you've regretted it because you missed out on an opportunity. But then other times, you're spontaneous and adventurous, and you do take chances...and that's when you've had some of the best times of your life."
If she agrees with my Cold Read -- and seriously, I've never had a woman totally disagree -- I'll follow up by telling her that I can relate, because I'm the same way. This builds a bond between me and her. In order to solidify the bond, I'll tell a quick story that ILLUSTRATES how I'm the same type of person.
(If you've got five Cold Reads ready to use, you should also have five short stories to illustrate how you embody those same qualities.)
Here's another cool one: "I can tell something has been weighing on your mind. You're on the verge of making an important decision in your life, aren't you."
Pretty much all of us, at any given time, are contemplating a big decision (or one that is big to us, at least). But she'll be surprised and impressed that you "knew" that about her. She'll volunteer more information about herself, and now you're engaged in a deep, authentic conversation instead of trying to fill awkward silences.
(This one works GREAT with strippers, because these girls ALWAYS seem to have some type of drama on their mind.)
Much of what a cold reader does is simply repeating back what the subject has said. If she affirms that she's on the verge of making a big decision, you should nod wisely and say, "Yes, that's right, and you're really having a hard time with it."
Act as if you already KNEW what she was going to say!
Some other Cold Reads that are vague, yet sound "profound":
"I can tell you have a strong need for others to like and admire you, but you also have a tendency to be critical of yourself."
"You've got a hidden talent, or a passion, that most people don't know about, and you want to pursue it -- but something is holding you back."
"At times, you're really social and outgoing. But other times, you're reserved and introverted."
Once you add Cold Reads to your conversations with women, you'll get a feel for which ones work best. In strip clubs, techniques like these can quickly CHANGE her perception of you as "just another customer" -- and allow you to connect with her on a real level, which can lead to getting her phone number...and meeting up with her after her shift for some REAL fun ;)
Understanding and mastering the fundamental elements to creating attraction with strippers, exotic dancers, 9s and 10s might seem like rocket science for most guys, but fact is, it's WAY easier than most guys perceive them to be.
And best of all, when you finally 'get it'... your WHOLE LIFE changes just like... THAT.
So if you want to skip the entire nerve-wrecking learning curve and start meeting and getting them with no fear of rejection, then you owe it to yourself to check this out:
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Secrets of Strip Club Seduction was definitely an eye-opening review for me. I cannot deny that exotic dancers, strippers are hot, they are indeed very hot and to be honest I have always likened having these women as one of my biggest fantasies... ever!
These girls are wild, fun to be with, sexy as hell and they sure do know how to "tease" us. I've always thought that they were the easiest targets to bring home but after numerous tries and blowing thousands of dollars trying to "buy" my way through, I can only say that that could be further away from the truth.
These girls can be one of the toughest nuts to crack and after going through this book, that's when I suddenly knew why... I got everything totally wrong... from my approach, to the way I talked and "woo-ed" them... wrong. Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction opened my eyes to how these girls were thinking, what drove them, how they viewed "customers", basically their entire mindset and what made them tick... which to me is an invaluable amount of knowledge!
One thing I've learned here is how different I have to approach these girls who are practically "harassed" by guys all day, every day who want to get into their pants as well. The hour-long interview with the strip club manager was very enlightening as to what goes on behind the scenes as well, nice! No fluff, no hype, just straight to the point information on exactly what I needed to know on how to deal, tackle and get myself these 9s and 10s.
This is information you can't find anywhere else. Not in any bookstore or website... highly specialized and focused in helping the reader meet, get and "seal it" with pornstars, exotic dancers & super-model types. I liked it for what it is... honest, raw & uncensored... stripped down bare on what it's really like going after these women...good stuff! You can download everything here:
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