Everything.

      If you aren't constantly approaching women, you aren't meeting them. Without meeting them, nothing starts... and when nothing starts, there is NO love life for you. That's zero.. with a capital O.     

      So if you want to meet a lot of women - - to have an endless supply of "options" to choose from -- to live a life of abundance - then you must know how to approach women and start conversations when push comes to shove and not let it slip by the way most guys do.

      Quick question: Whenever you come across a woman you’d like to meet...

You’re ready to do it… but as you’re about to move towards her, you just couldn’t. There was just ‘something’ stopping you. And when you’ve finally gathered enough courage to do it, she’s gone.

The only thing you did was stare at her from afar; imagining something ‘magical’ will happen between the both you... and that’s the end of it

You try to act  all uber-cool, hoping she’ll notice and come talk to you, but she never comes…

You saw your target, you’re going to approach her; when it’s crunch time, you suddenly think of reasons NOT to approach her... thoughts like, "my hair’s not right, I’m not looking my best today, she's probably taken..." or "she probably wouldn't be interested in me..."

You really want to talk to her, but have absolutely no idea "what to say"  and don't want to creep her out or make a fool of yourself in public…

      "How do I know?"

      Because I’ve been through them myself, done it all.

      Here's my story and what it means to YOU: I used to live in New York City... and beautiful, hot women seem to grow on trees in New York! Every time I left my apartment, I would see gorgeous women walking all over the place. And when I went out on weekends to the bars and clubs, it was absolute torture to see all those hot girls that I wanted to meet... but didn't know how to.      

      Sometimes I did try to approach (usually after consuming large quantities of alcohol). It never really turned into the "disaster" I'd imagined in my head -- it's not like I ever got slapped, or had a drink thrown in my face...      

      Instead, it was more like a slow-motion humiliation. I'd introduce myself, we would chit-chat for a few minutes, maybe I'd buy her a drink or two, and then...things just normally ran out of steam. As hard as I tried, I could never figure a way to keep it going...     

      That's when she would excuse herself...she'd tell me she had to get going, or had to go find her friend, or whatever... I would never have the balls to ask for her phone number, because I had no idea whether she was interested in me, or was just "humoring" me for a few minutes so she wouldn't seem rude. I hated that.

      Put another way, no matter what I did, I could never "seal the deal" & get myself a girl.... One after another, I kept getting blown off... over and over again. It was awful. It was painful. That rejection. That feeling of helplessness; that no matter how hard you try, women simply are repelled by you.

      God was it bitter. Life meant nothing to me.. it was empty, it was shit... and it sucked.

      Fast-forward a few years... I was now living in another big city, which also had a major nightlife scene. Nothing changed: I was still struggling to get laid because these environments were also filled with young, good-looking guys who were in better shape than me, drove nicer cars, and had more "game."      

      Intensely depressed, I was on the verge of suicide: Late one night, after spending several frustrating hours at some crowded, smoky nightclub -- trying to talk to women over ear-splitting music -- I was drowning my sorrows at the bar across the street when I noticed a dude standing next to me.      

      Truth be told, what I noticed first were four ridiculously hot women surrounding him with big *girlish* smiles on their faces. He was telling them a funny story about something, and these chicks were clinging on his every word.      

      The guy was short. 165cm max. He was wearing a tee-shirt and a pair of ripped-up jeans and sneakers. This was not a guy you would imagine insanely hot girls hanging all over. I figured he had to be a multi-millionaire, or a famous musician or actor or something. I knew ZERO what his story was.      

      All I knew was, these four Playboy Magazine-level chicks looked like they were ready to tear each others hair out to go home with him that very night! I was standing at the bar just a few feet away, observing and listening. Minutes later he told the girls he "had some plans for later on this evening" but that he would call them soon to hang out. The girls whipped out their cell phones and gave him all their numbers.      

      He gave each one of them a kiss -- and sent them on their way! He then turned to the bartender and ordered a beer. I was standing right next to him... and I leaned in and said to him, "Dude, I'm impressed..."  We got to talking, and lo and behold... it turned out this guy wasn't rich or famous.

      In fact, I learned that he was (of all things) an actual.... Hostage Negotiator.      

      Like you've seen on TV and in the movies. Except this guy wasn't some grizzled old hard-drinking veteran. In fact, he was the youngest Hostage Negotiator ever appointed to his team. He was young, hip and full of positive energy.       

      We started hanging out together. He showed me every after-hour nightclub and VIP room in the city, and everywhere we went, he was able to approach the hottest girls, strike up conversations and bam!

      Whatever the situation was, he could effortlessly create instant "bonds" with women, have them smiling and clawing him... within minutes! Women just wanted him... they threw themselves at him at every whim... the question then was whether he wanted them back.

      It didn't matter if she was surrounded by a group of women -- or guys! It didn't matter if she was sitting down in a restaurant, or on duty working as a waitress or bartender. He could approach the hottest salesgirl in a department store, say a few "magic words," and walk away with her phone number within seconds... that's 30 - 40 seconds.. I'd say the longest I've seen him get a girl's number was something like 3 mins... max. (honestly it made no differnce since he'd usually end up banging her that very same night!)      

      Bastard.

      Even when women were cold and bitchy... it didn't matter. He had an incredible way of steering conversations into topics that made them pay attention to him, touch him... CRAVE him.   

      His conversations were "sexy-hypnotic." He would ask funny questions, tell wonderful stories, and get a woman talking about topics that puts her in a flirty, playful, sexual mood.      

      By the way, I never once saw him buy a girl a drink... usually she pays. (it wasn't about him being "cheap"...it was about him maintaining the "power position" in the interaction).      

      The best part?: My ENTIRE LIFE changed from then on! With Mr X as my wingman, introducing me to women, I felt INVINCIBLE. It was common for us to pick up several hot girls in one club, bring them to the next, and wind up going home with two new girls who were doubly hot!   

      Confession: I always thought of him as a "natural"-- a guy who was blessed with special chromosomes that made him irresistible to women. But as I got to know him better, I learnt that this wasn't the case.

       Seems he was just terrible. He'd been through horrible breakups, including a divorce, and there was a 2-year period where he'd just hibernate at home and cringe at the slightest thought of meeting women. 

      Still.. who knew... that in a stunning twist of events, it was also then that he first enrolled himself into "Negotiator Bootcamp". The one single bootcamp that would change his life forever. *The* one single bootcamp that proudly "got" him (at last count) 344 *free* lays to date.    

      Here's why -- Whenever he got called into a "negotiation" -- whether it was a guy threatening to jump off a building, or a bunch of bank robbers who were holed up inside a bank with hostages -- he knew precisely how to manage their stress levels...gain their trust...build a bond with them...and guide the situation towards the resolution that he wanted.      

      He was damn good at his job. But it was highly stressful, as you can imagine. Sometimes these negotiations took 10 or 12 hours. Sometimes longer. And to help himself "decompress" after a long shift, he started going to bars and clubs to let off "steam".     

      ... And this is when this success rate with women suddenly began to explode! Now, when he would talk to women, he would subconsciously slip into "Negotiator mode" and build bonds with them -- the same way he does in his job.

      He knew the "trigger words" and topics to avoid, because they elevate a person's stress levels. (Most guys say and do exactly what they're not supposed to do, and have no idea that they're blowing their chances!)       

      He also knew the words and topics that will build a bridge with a person and make them feel calm, comfortable, and "bonded" to you. You know what? I spent the last 5 years picking his brains about this, and I found that these same tactics and principles can be directly applied to the art of approaching, flirting and seduction.           

      Anyway... since then, I've spent years traveling the world, hooked up with hundreds of women and hanging out with some of the world's top pickup artists and dating coaches. I've written a series of best-selling books about my experiences and techniques -- which elevated me from "frustrated nice guy" to someone the global media would listen to.

            Now don't get me wrong: I'm not telling you this to brag, or boast, but to make a point: I know what I'm talking about... and I'm damn sure what I'm about to share with you in the next few minutes will BLOW you away!

If you're ready to finally kiss your fears of walking up to women goodbye --- and give yourself the priceless skill of being able to approach any woman in any situation... spark her attraction for you INSTANTLY... and leave with her wanting you... I have some exciting news for you...             I've spent the last few months putting together a brand new, one-of-a-kind program on "The Ultimate Approach: Approaching Women And Starting Conversations"... and it's finally ready to rock. This program is not designed to simply educate you on the ins and outs of approaching women... and it's not just going to give you a few great lines and techniques...

      What this program is designed to do is to completely IMPLANT the skill of approaching women into your game, brain, and personality... and make it a permanent part of you.

     Here is a very small sample of the *breakthrough* techniques you'll learn in this program:

• How to handle any objection from women such as “why are you talking to us”, “don’t you have anyone else here to talk to”, “I’m not interested”, etc... and still end up setting a date with her

• The 3 magic words to say to a woman the moment you approached her that gets HER interested and do ALL the talking

• Exactly what to say to women who are ‘on the go’ to stop whatever they’re doing and have a stimulating conversation with you instead

• A broken down and explained structure on exactly what to SAY and DO right after you've approached a woman to get her curious about YOU

• A smooth and charming way to easily meet women who are sitting or standing around you... at ANY place!

• Story-telling: How to use simple everyday stories to grab a woman's attention and have her engrossed in every little word you say

• Hilarious one-liners to "turn the tables" that changes the dynamics of the interaction to make it look like THEY are the ones picking YOU up (Women absolutely LOVE this and can never seem to get enough of it!)

• The 4 crucial words you must say immediately after you’ve approached a woman to ensure she stays and continues talking to you

• How to touch a woman the right way upon first meeting her (without creeping or freaking her out) that can easily lead to hand-holding, closing with a kiss or even bringing her home later

• “Word for word” questions you can ask to build instant connection & rapport to get a woman you’ve just met to open herself up to you & secretly have that “Oh my God, we’re sooo connecting with each other!” thoughts as you’re talking to her.

• Hilarious one-liners you can use to get women laughing in seconds and enjoy your company even if you previously sucked at making jokes.

• How to easily implant an impenetrable positive mental shield for yourself… that even the harshest, most downgrading rejections bounces off it

• How to increase the effectiveness of your “rehearsed” routines by making them appear as the most spontaneous things to catch women’s attention and talk to you… (it works every time!)

• “Mindset transformation” that will DRASTICALLY change the way you look at approaching women FOREVER. When you know this, you’ll finally know why & how successful ‘naturals’ easily “turn the tables” on women and have them make you the “bait” they should ‘work’ hard for… and NOT the other way around

• A simple technique on how to smoothly walk up to ANY woman and strike up fun-filled, playful, flirtatious conversations and instantly have her feeling that funny ‘I don’t know what’s with this guy, but I just want to be around him’ vibe within the first few minutes of interaction 

... and that's just the tip of the iceberg!

      I'm talking about some of the "juiciest" techniques that's never been shared before like:

• How to effectively approach and open up groups of women who looks "off limits" and have THEM ask YOU to join in and "roll" with them.

• A smooth way to approach women who are already with other guys without creating any uncomfortable vibes within the group

• How to ethically "use" your female friends to meet MORE women as you're out with them with little or no effort on your part

• Word-for-word lines to bust on women and flirt with them the moment you talk to them that works EVERY SINGLE TIME.

• A step-by-step detailed plan on how to walk up to ANY woman, get her number or email and have her desperately EAGER to contact YOU the following day

• A sneaky yet crafty way to have women secretly wishing to talk to you BEFORE you even approach them (I’ve tried this and I can proudly say this technique works EVERY time!)

• You’ll learn about 2 surefire calming exercises you can use during your most crucial moments before opening ‘sets’ to effectively overcome these fears to approach women in a laid-back, relaxed state

• The single most important rule you MUST follow to ‘get it right’ when approaching women that are SUPER attractive (yes, these women get ‘hit’ on ALL THE TIME, this is the only technique you can use to DIFFERENTIATE yourself from the 100 others that have approached her!)

• Real Proven Game openers with ‘word-for-word’ scripts that one can use ANYWHERE, be it in bars, clubs, the local shopping mall, the library, gym, etc... and how they work WITHOUT ever getting rejected or being blown away

• How to quickly come up with riveting ‘killer’, natural, yet highly effective openers on the fly… even if you’ve never approached anyone before in your lifetime!

• Exposed! A shocking new discovery on how to INTEGRATE the learned/canned techniques in a way that is completely in line with your own personal characteristics and style (I guarantee you won’t find this piece of information anywhere but here..)

• A down and dirty look into the true art of using teasing & playful conversation techniques to create sexual chemistry with the woman you’re with… even if you are of a more "uptight" character ie. someone who's not the "playful", "fun" sort of guy!

• How to make any conversation 'interesting' enough & keep it going in order ignite the inner attraction within her

• Learn about cool, natural ways to 'spice up', turn the conversation to sex and turn her 'on' in the course of interaction & instantly amp up HER attraction for you in the process!

• A lot has been discussed on the topic of flirting with women. Unfortunately no one goes to detail about what it really means. Here, you’ll discover the 7 best ways to 'seductively' flirt with a woman (all broken down and explained)…

... and a whole lot more!

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In this 60-minute CD recording, master approacher, Carlos Xuma reveals:

• The Architecture of Approach - A simple and easy-to-follow 4-step model of approaching during the day (or anytime) with a proven 93% closing rate...

• 5 primary day game openers broken down and explained: how to use them and when to use them for maximum impact

• How to use Qualification effectively in every approach so that you communicate your value without being arrogant or irritating - as well as qualification statements and questions you can make...

• Escalation: How to move the approach forward from the introduction all the way to the close with dynamic connection between you and the woman...

• Uncover how to easily avoid letting the emotions you feel when you meet a really special woman cause you to make stupid mistakes that `scares' her away

• ... and a whole lot more!

      The best.

      .This exclusive private interview is where I dig for gold and as I was relentless in  finding out exactly know what he does, how he acts, and what he says to women (in detail) that gets them to pursue him... ALL THE TIME.      

      And most important of all, I got him to reveal exactly HOW HE THINKS. I grilled him deep. In return, I got AMAZING answers. There's no better "teacher" out there, as he has an extremely accurate understanding of how men should behave in order to attract women (younger and older).

      Really.

      Dr Paul (as he's popularly known), specializes in the areas of trauma, men's psychology, dating, relationships, and their missions in life.

      He is a frequent teacher alongside David Deangelo, Neil Strauss, Mystery, and most "men's community gurus," and considered to be the leading authority of inner game.

Here you will instantly learn how transform yourself into the powerful, confident, attractive man that every woman is desperately looking for:

• How to identify which type of concerns and situations weaken your confidence and how to counteract them.

• Discover what makes you truly unique and how to stand out from every other man that tries to compete even if you are the shyest person around!

• How to conquer you emotional energy and give yourself the ability to turn any uncomfortable feeling into positive energy that motivates you to succeed

• A never-revealed-before psychological trick to conquer anger and anxiety and never again be a slave to your emotions

• Uncover how to avoid letting the emotions you feel when you meet a really special woman cause you to make stupid mistakes that `scares' her away

• ... and a whole lot more!

• The 4 keys to understanding women's inner emotional experience

• A powerful way to magnetically touch a woman that gets her thinking "naughty things" about you & have her touching you more and more and more...

• How all women control men & exactly what to do to catch them off-guard and sneakily AMPLIFY her attraction for you...

• ... and so much more!

      Two reasons.

      1 -- I want you to spread the word about my upcoming exclusive "Bullet-Proof Seduction™ " Grandmasters Advanced Level Training Program.

      Because our team has spent the last 10 years perfecting these methods, networking with the top pickup artists around the world, we have a HUMUNGOUS archive of material; with well over 700+ pages of notes, 56+ hours of hidden cam (pick-up, attraction, sexual escalation, seduction) videos, CD recordings, mp3 audios, video tutorials, etc. --- which are still rapidly piling up as I'm sitting here writing this (We've kept this "stuff" tightly under wraps until now.).

      So if you want our approach book FREE OF CHARGE , we want to give it to you... but we want you to listen out for the name "Bullet-Proof Seduction™ ", because pretty soon you'll be hearing A LOT about it from every nook and corner of the Internet, and when you're completely obsessed by the results you'll be getting just from using this material alone, you'll be begging to register for our mastery advanced classes, "secret archives" and joining our "underground" community then.

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      I truly want to help people experience the kind of success these guys have enjoyed…call it ego. I want AS MANY success stories as I can get this time around, and this is my way of pulling all the stops to make it happen... by giving you my very first gem... FREE.